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What We’ve Learned About Love, Life, and Faith from 4,000+ Clients
When you work with people at one of the most vulnerable and hopeful moments of their lives, you begin to see patterns — not on paper, but in the heart. Over the years at Personal Match UK, having worked with thousands of clients, we’ve been given a...
Why Vetting and Character Assessment Changes Everything in Marriage and Why We Do It the Way We Do
After nearly 25 years of private Muslim matchmaking, we’ve learned one powerful truth: marriage succeeds or fails based on character. Not appearance, not career, not charm, but the sincerity, honesty, and integrity a person carries within them. Our...
Why Knowing Yourself is the First Step to Finding the Right Spouse
Before you can recognise the right person for you, you must first recognise yourself. Many people search for a spouse while their own hearts, values, or intentions are still unclear, and that often leads to confusion, disappointment, or connections...
How to Prepare Your Heart Spiritually Before Marriage
Before marriage ever becomes a reality in your life, it begins quietly in your heart. Many people focus on preparing their homes, their finances, or their lists of expectations, but in Islam, the real preparation starts inwardly. A marriage built...
Making Du‘ā for Your Future Spouse: Intentions, Patience, and Faith
Marriage is one of the most beautiful gifts Allah has blessed us with, but the journey to finding the right spouse is not always straightforward. For many Muslims, the process can feel long, uncertain, and at times, emotionally exhausting. Yet,...
The Role of Barakah in Marriage and Why It Matters More Than Chemistry
When I think about the word barakah, I’m reminded of how gentle yet powerful it is. Barakah isn’t something you can see or touch. It’s not measured in money, looks, or even time. It’s that unseen blessing from Allah that turns the ordinary into...
The Modern Muslim Man vs. The Modern Muslim Woman, Are We Really Looking for Each Other?
Sometimes, when I listen to Muslim singles speak about what they’re searching for, I can’t help but notice a quiet disconnect. It’s as if men and women are both standing on the same bridge, but facing in different directions, hoping the other will...
Why Finding Love the Halal Way Feels So Hard
I hear it all the time,“It shouldn’t be this hard." Muslim singles say it with tired eyes and quiet hearts, often after years of searching. Searching online. Searching through introductions. Searching within themselves. And I understand it...
Looking for a faith-centred way to find your match?
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what Muslim singles are truly looking for. I speak to so many people every week,professionals, students, divorcees, reverts, people who’ve been searching for years, and I can feel how the landscape of love in...
Is Personal Match UK a scam? Learn the truth
How to Tell If We’re a Scam (Hint: We’re Not) As a Muslim matchmaking service that has been running since 2011, we have seen our fair share of attempts to smear our reputation and name. However, we have now come across that we are a ‘scam’ LOL....
Muslim Matchmaking Services and the Importance of Family Support in the UK
Muslim Matchmaking Services and the Importance of Family Support in the UK As a culturally diverse country, the United Kingdom is home to a large and vibrant Muslim community. This community is made up of people from a range of backgrounds, each...
Finding Love After Divorce
There is a common cultural stigma amongst many Muslim South Asians that once you are divorced, it is looked upon as a negative thing to re marry and find someone else. We do not believe in this, being divorced is part of life and is a part of life...
Is Attraction Important When Looking for Your Muslim Marriage Partner?
The short answer is, yes, of course looks matter when you are searching for your marriage partner. However, it is all about the mindset and approach to it. Have you ever been attracted to someone and then you did not like their personality so, you...
How Can A Muslim Introvert Find A Marriage Partner?
Finding a Muslim life partner can be challenging, especially if you struggle to communicate and you find that you are more of an introvert. If you find that you don’t tend to make new friends easily and you focus on the circle that you have, it can...
Reflection during Ramadan, too busy to find your life partner?
“And it is among His signs that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquillity in them, and He has created love and kindness between you. Surely in this there are signs for a people who reflect”. (Qur'an...
Feeling A Lack of Support in Your Search for a Muslim Marriage Partner? You are not alone!
I wanted to write this today in recognition of the many Muslim individuals who suffer in silence throughout the journey of looking for their Muslim marriage partner. This is something that effects so many people and whilst there are different...
Lack of Chemistry When Meeting Your Muslim Match?
So, this is one of the many topics that I feel there isn’t enough content about in order to encourage success when Muslim individuals meet for marriage. When a couple meet for the first time, there are a lot of different factors to consider. Within...
The benefits of Muslim Matchmaking in London
When you are a busy Muslim individual looking for marriage, it can be so challenging to meet decent people. London is an example of Muslim people living an extremely busy work and social life and they often leave marriage on the back burner, of...
Top 4 Ways to Meet a Muslim for Marriage in London
If you live in London right now or any other major city in the UK you’ll, already know how difficult it can be to find your marriage partner. There is a growing difficulty for anyone looking to meet someone the halal way, but why does it have to be...
5 Ways to Attract a Muslim Marriage Partner – Personal Match UK
Have you ever met someone, and things seemed to go well, however they didn’t wish to meet again (or ghosted you completely)? It can be hard to put your finger on what went wrong, but it comes down to learning what can you do in order for them to...