Have you ever met someone, and things seemed to go well, however they didn’t wish to meet again (or ghosted you completely)?
It can be hard to put your finger on what went wrong, but it comes down to learning what can you do in order for them to want to meet you again.
There are many ways that you can attract your ideal Muslim marriage partner. I’m going to break it down to 5 simple techniques that you can use to increase your chances at success when you meet people.
Let’s go through them:
- Don’t speak about yourself too much.
This is something that is very common, many people don’t realise that they overshare or focus on one thing a bit too much. It can be really easy to turn someone off and they no longer are interested in what you have to say, especially as they don’t know you.
- Try not to focus too much on tick box questions.
Now, I don’t know what it is but when anyone meets someone for the first time, why do they automatically think the right thing to so dive in and ask all these personal questions that you normally wouldn’t ask someone. If you ask in depth marriage related questions too soon, firstly, you won’t get the answers you are looking for as they will give you a hypothetical answer to a hypothetical question. Once you build a connection, believe it or not they will actually factor you in to their responses.
- Be the host.
When you’re having your first or second conversation with someone, one of the most effective ways to get them to feel comfortable around you, is to be the host. Lead the conversation by asking them would they like something to drink or eat, ask pleasant questions and engage with them about their responses. Allow them to feel you’re taking an interest in them by making them feel at ease.
- Be open minded, don’t say you’re open minded.
Remember you and the person you’re getting to know don’t know each other and come from different walks of life. You both have an idea of how you would like life to be and it is not easy to factor another person into that plan. Your marriage partner changes everything, but it will always be for the better, but you can’t see that after two dates. If you see potential in someone, give them a chance and you will be amazed at how much people adapt for someone they care about. In your first meeting, there is no relationship so naturally they will not consider you as a part of their lives.
- Be warm.
People naturally gravitate to an environment where they feel comfortable and warm. If you focus on one thing, focus on making that person relax and be themselves. If they get the slightest feeling you will judge them, they will never let their guard down for you to see the real them.
If you have made it to the end that’s amazing! When you begin to implement these points step by step, I guarantee you, you will notice a massive difference in the response you receive from the single muslims you meet. When you break it down its quite simple but can be complex to implement, so don’t worry if you forget and go into autopilot like most do.
When you can, remember some of the above points and it will help you attract your muslim marriage partner.